"Old School Judges"
As I have gone through this divorce/custody case, I have been amazed/shocked/sickened by MANY things. One of the more disturbing things is how people try to justify the unethical behavior that is taking place in our courts.
To be honest, I understand why people are so desperate to justify it. After all, we are living in the modern world, where women can vote, and slavery is long gone. Surely we have progressed to the point where discrimination just doesn’t take place in our courts. At least, we want the comfort of believing this. The truth is, I think we just want to feel safe. We want to be able to say that we live in a country where our courts protect us… you know…. “justice is blind”, and “innocent until proven guilty”. A few years ago, I believed those things.
That brings me to the topic of TERMINOLOGY. Have you ever used the term “old school judge”? If you have been involved in a divorce case, I bet you have. I have used it many times. I have heard several attorneys use it. We all know what it means… It means, if you are in a divorce/custody case, and you face an “old school judge”, then you expect him/her to rule in favor of the mother, regardless of the evidence.
The following are definitions I have borrowed from Merriam-Webster:
Discrimination: prejudiced or prejudicial outlook, action, or treatment [racial discrimination]
Corrupt: characterized by improper conduct (as bribery or the selling of favors) [corrupt judges]
Now, here is the important question:
Are judges allowed to make decisions based on a prejudiced or prejudicial outlook? In other words, can they make a decision based on sex, race, religion….? Of course not! That is discrimination! That is improper conduct! (see corrupt)
If you agree with the statement I just made, then you have to ask yourself: Why use a phrase like “Old School”, when the term “Corrupt” is more accurate? I think it goes back to wanting to feel safe. We don’t want to believe that our judges are corrupt. We want to believe that we have put discrimination behind us.
My point in all of this is that we have to accept things for what they are, if we expect to make progress. If we want to live in a world in which equality prevails, we have to stop covering corruption up with flowery terms like “old school”. Saying a judge is “old school” doesn’t get much attention. Saying a judge is “corrupt” is a whole different story.
Greg
To be honest, I understand why people are so desperate to justify it. After all, we are living in the modern world, where women can vote, and slavery is long gone. Surely we have progressed to the point where discrimination just doesn’t take place in our courts. At least, we want the comfort of believing this. The truth is, I think we just want to feel safe. We want to be able to say that we live in a country where our courts protect us… you know…. “justice is blind”, and “innocent until proven guilty”. A few years ago, I believed those things.
That brings me to the topic of TERMINOLOGY. Have you ever used the term “old school judge”? If you have been involved in a divorce case, I bet you have. I have used it many times. I have heard several attorneys use it. We all know what it means… It means, if you are in a divorce/custody case, and you face an “old school judge”, then you expect him/her to rule in favor of the mother, regardless of the evidence.
The following are definitions I have borrowed from Merriam-Webster:
Discrimination: prejudiced or prejudicial outlook, action, or treatment [racial discrimination]
Corrupt: characterized by improper conduct (as bribery or the selling of favors) [corrupt judges]
Now, here is the important question:
Are judges allowed to make decisions based on a prejudiced or prejudicial outlook? In other words, can they make a decision based on sex, race, religion….? Of course not! That is discrimination! That is improper conduct! (see corrupt)
If you agree with the statement I just made, then you have to ask yourself: Why use a phrase like “Old School”, when the term “Corrupt” is more accurate? I think it goes back to wanting to feel safe. We don’t want to believe that our judges are corrupt. We want to believe that we have put discrimination behind us.
My point in all of this is that we have to accept things for what they are, if we expect to make progress. If we want to live in a world in which equality prevails, we have to stop covering corruption up with flowery terms like “old school”. Saying a judge is “old school” doesn’t get much attention. Saying a judge is “corrupt” is a whole different story.
Greg


